Crossing Cultures 

Adjustment for women

The overwhelming majority of students who study abroad are women and they report back that they have had incredible experiences.  However, in certain locations and programs, women may have a difficult time adjusting to attitudes they encounter abroad, both in public and private interactions between men and women.  Some men openly demonstrate their appraisal of women in ways that many women find offensive.  It is not uncommon to be honked at, stared at, verbally and loudly approved of, and, in general, to be actively noticed simply for being a woman, and in particular, a U.S. American woman.  Sometimes the attention can be flattering.  Soon, it may become very annoying and potentially even angering.  Local women, who often get the same sort of treatment, have learned through their culture how to respond to the attention.

Eye contact between strangers or a smile at someone passing in the street, which is not uncommon in the U.S., may result in totally unexpected invitations, and some women feel forced to avoid eye contact.  You will have to learn the unwritten rules about what you can and cannot do.  Women can provide support for each other; you may wish to get together several times early in your stay abroad to talk about what does and doesn’t work for dealing with unwanted attention.  U.S. women are seen as liberated in many ways and sometimes the cultural misunderstanding that comes out of that image can lead to difficult and unpleasant experiences.

These cultural differences may make male-female friendships more challenging.  Consider the implicit messages you are communicating, messages you may not intend in your own cultural context.  Above all, try to maintain the perspective that these challenging and sometimes difficult experiences are part of the growth of cultural understanding, which is one of the important reasons you are studying abroad.  
Female travelers may be more likely to encounter harassment such as unwanted sexual gestures, physical contact, or statements that are offensive or humiliating.  Uncomfortable situations such as these may be avoided by taking the following precautions:

• Dress conservatively; while short skirts and tank tops may be comfortable, they may encourage unwanted attention.
• Avoid walking alone late at night or in questionable neighborhoods.
• Do not agree to meet a person who you do not know in a non-public place.
• Be aware that some men from other cultures tend to mistake the friendliness of U.S. American women for romantic interest.

If, after acknowledging cultural differences, you still feel uncomfortable with what you interpret as sexual harassment, you should talk with your leader, resident director, or other on-site personnel.  This conversation may provide you with some coping skills and a possible action plan to avoid future encounters.  It may also help you gain a different perspective by understanding the local customs and attitudes.  It could be possible that the behaviors you feel uncomfortable with are behaviors that are also considered unacceptable in the host culture.

If you feel you are being sexually harassed by your fellow American students, speak with your program leader.  If you feel you are being sexually harassed by your program leader, resident director, or other on-site personnel, contact the Office of Study Abroad immediately. You may contact OSA by phone or e-mail, including the 24/7 Emergency Assistance Line at (517) 353-3784. 

If you would prefer to report your concerns to a university unit with no ties to OSA or your academic department, contact the following:

Concerns against a student:  
Department of Student Life
(517) 432-2471

Concerns against an employee:            
MSU Ombudsman
(517) 353-8830