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Safety
While Studying Abroad
Safety
Information for Students: Dating & Sex
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DIFFERENT CULTURE EQUALS DIFFERENT NORMS
Women
and men should both be aware that the ways people interact vary
widely by region and country, and issues around dating and sexuality
can be particularly difficult in a cross-cultural setting.
Eye contact, dress, and body language can all send different messages
by region and culture. Observing interpersonal interactions within
a culture can help you to choose the way you communicate verbally
and non-verbally with others in that country.
Some
people consider traveling an aphrodisiac. Meeting new, exciting,
and different people may stimulate action that you would not have
taken under similar circumstances in the United States. Don't be
foolish in assuming that you are invulnerable because you are a
visitor in the country and no one is judging your behavior. Ask
yourself why you are choosing to be sexually active and be aware
of and set your boundaries and partner expectations.
BE RESPONSIBLE AND BE PREPARED
If
you choose to be sexually active, use safe sex and protect yourself
and your partner against unintended pregnancy, sexually transmitted
diseases, AIDS, and misunderstandings about the meaning of the relationship.
Take a supply of condoms with you since conditions of availability
and purchase may be limited, and conditions of manufacture and storage
may be questionable.
Be responsible if using alcohol or other drugs because they can
affect your behavior. Don't leave the country with anything you
didn't bring: this means a pregnancy, sexually transmitted diseases,
or AIDS.
During
your orientation you will be given a copy of International Healthclips,
a publication developed by the MSU Olin Heath Center. Included in
this publication is a section titled "Sexuality: Make the
Right Decision for You." Take the time to read over this
section, especially the personal insights given by returned study
abroad students. It may make the difference as you plan for and
participate in your study abroad experience.
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